The most successful way to win your ex boyfriend back by building up the attraction level between you. This is done slowly over time as your ex begins to realize what he is missing. Because you are trying to show him why he made a mistake, it is important to hide your weaknesses, since they will not do much to entice him.
Too many people go after their ex with negative energy. They act depressed around them, or they call crying and beginning for another chance. This only makes you look weak from your ex's standpoint. It also tells him that he can basically have you anytime he wants. This sad, beaten-down approach only highlights your negative points, and does nothing to sell him on your positives.
By trying to get your ex back with positive reinforcement, you will help spin your relationship in a positive light. Focus on smiling and appearing happy no matter how you feel inside. Reflect on the many things that make you special, and find creative ways to highlight them so your ex will notice. Ignore anything negative that comes up in conversation. If he stays persistent on a negative topic, then talk about how it made you both stronger in the end.
By focusing on your strengths, you can help your ex boyfriend realize why he fell in love with you in the first place. Sometimes we get overwhelmed with the negatives and we need someone to show us the good points as well. This will be your job as you try to get your ex back. Remind your ex why your relationship was special by showing him that you are the right girl for his future.
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2 comments:
what a blog!
strange idea...
haha let me say something.. first of all if your trying to "get ur ex back" and you're using negative energy towards that person, then apparently you really don't want your ex back.. because in your subconcious part of your mind it's secretly telling you "no this is not right, this person is not right for you anymore" therefore negative energy keeps leaping in front of any positive energy towards the ex you're encountering or contacting.. i did the positive approach and so did he.. and believe it or not it went ok for a lil while biut that negative energy increased again, because apparently he was still the same jackass he had always been.. but it also puts both people into a trap of some kind.. because now you both tried the positive approach but negative energy arised and it gets worse the longer both people keep in contact of any kind.. this can really backfire on either ex.. making him angry and feel resentment and making the her feel like she did something wrong again.. so my advice is if you feel increasing negative energy don't just stop all contact.. delete it.. you might blow up at your ex for whatever reason.. so TELL THE TRUTH, use your survival instincts.. which is, and beleive it or not, what the negative energy is for.. it's helping you survive so neither of you get broken again or whatever.. DON'T REPEAT THE SAME SHIT.. if deep down you think he's a freaking moron, let him know and then give him space without any expectations of receiving anything from him ever again.. it makes things easier.. and as for the comment abt "don't act depressed or say depressing things to him" .. well, put it into this perspective.. if you're acting down around him, you probably do not like him or want him as bad as you think you do, because if you guys really got along in the first place then you wouldn't feel the need to "be down" or say "depressing" things if you guys get back into contact.. you know, GET SOME CONFIDENCE and DON'T EVER PUT HIM FIRST.. because that's just lame and it's a sign that deep inside you need help.. but not from your ex! DATING IS SUPPOSE TO BE FUN. and if he wants strictly sex from you, screw him up in the head, take charge of the situation, get what you want- whether it be a quick fix or a second chance at something- if the sex is good but you still don't get along or you really just can't for some reason, then tell him, and then figure out the best solution FOR YOU. You are number one, he can screw himself for all you care.. that's the way it should be.. remember, he isn't perfect and you should never feel hurt with or without him. You should feel great no matter what. So, the moral to this long comment is: if the car has wrecked once, and your trying to drive it again, it's either going to need a LOT of work- which takes you and the car working together properly- not just you talking to the car- the car won't respond if you talk to it- the car will respond if you phsyically handle it and with care- but you have to ask yourself "do i really want this car to work that badly? do i really want to put that much of MY energy into this wrecked car in hopes that it will work properly? if you're guts says "move the hell on, your wasting your time, your better off with a new or different car" then you should probably listen to that initial response within yourself.. don't let your ex swoon you into thinking what he is thinking, b/c it's probably just to get into your pants again, bottom line, single ex-bf's who call you are dying to have seex with you.. they're not dying to marry you or have anything to do with you.. they're secretly scared of what you're going to say because if you're honest he knows it could crush his ego.. but if you (or he) lie such as if you keep apologizing for little bitty things that you say/said or do/done, then you're lying- flat out lying- not only to him but to mainly yourself. So, move the heck on and remembver what GREAT SELF ESTEEM FEELS LIKE.. you'll find your true self esteem when you ditch him and forgive, and if he crawls back again- think twice before you allow anything to happen.. if it happened once it's probably going to happen again. You can't change people.. people are individual persons.. and that one person is the only person who can actualy change themselves.
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