The Importance of Persistence

Some people struggle when their ex boyfriend won't take them back right away. They literally give up on their goal when they are turned down in the first attempt. But just as it took time to build your relationship, it can take just as much time to fix it.

The first thing you should realize in your quest to win back love is the fact that it rarely happens overnight. Everyone wants to find the quick fix for break ups, but the truth is that there is none. The main reason why is the element of trust. No matter why your break up occured, there is likely an element of trust that has been lost between you and your ex boyfriend. You have to slowly build this trust up over time before you can make your big move.

Doing little things each day to lessen the gap between you and your ex is always the best way to win back love. Focus first on establishing communication, then move to on to building trust, and finish by turning on the passion.

By being patient and persistent in your mission you will gradually make an impression on your ex. The key is to not be in his face all the time. You want to take a slow and subtle approach. Build on small accomplishments and stay consistent with your strategy. It is some ways like advertising...you rarely notice an ad the first time you see it, but once you are exposed to it hundreds of times it begins to become buried in your sub-conscious. This is the same effect you want on your ex boyfriend.