Connecting with Your Ex Boyfriend

The most effective way to fix a break up is to establish an emotional connection with the person who dumped you. While it is tempting to be depressed or beg for another chance during this stressful time, you should work on solving the problem instead of finding a quick fix. This doesn’t mean that you have to come up with a solution for your differences; it just means you have to find some common ground.

There was a distinct reason you and your ex boyfriend stated dating you way back when. It may have been somewhat due to physical attraction, but over time there were other reasons that your relationship grew. Identifying these emotional connectors is the key to getting back him. Anyone can apologize or stalk their ex, but only a few are creative enough to give their partner a reason to come back to them.

Look back at the best times in your relationship and ask yourself what you made you so happy together? Why did he feel compelled to call you or see you every day? There was something about the way you acted and communicated with him that he found attractive. Think about this and then compare it to how things have changed over the recent weeks. This may take some thought and personal reflection, but if you can replicate these behaviors then you will be well on your way to winning back is love.