Your Old Relationship Died

Albert Einstein once wrote that insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. This insightful definition is very relevant to getting your ex boyfriend back. Many people want things to "go back to the way they were" but this would only delay the occurrence of another breakup.

We are constantly changing as we grow through life. Things become more complex and our likes and dislikes change according to our current lifestyle. While it is often easy to say your boyfriend broke up with you because [insert reason here], very few of us accept the possibility that time has simply moved on.

But this in no way means you can't get your ex back. The point is to win them back you need to change with the situation. Being the same girl you always were may not be enough any more. Relationships thrive on challenges and spontaneity. When one side begins to feel bored they start to wonder if life would be better in a new setting.

So what does this all mean for you? It is simple really...think of ways to inject fun and adventure back into your relationship. Of course you will first have to prove to your ex that you have indeed changed. They need to witness in you a new attitude and passion for life. But it needs to be real because you won't be able to fake it forever.

Be honest with yourself...are you living life the way you want? Think about your goals and what drives you to succeed. Sometimes just pursuing a goal can increase your zest for life, and that will bring natural changes to make your ex notice you.