Be Strong and Confident

Weakness in a man is not an attractive trait, yet when a woman breaks up with a man; to get her back some men choose to reveal just how weak he is.

When a man shows a woman this type of weakness it can only lead to 1 of 2 things.

1. She leaves you for good
2. She stays and proceeds to manipulate and control you

Assuming that most men on some level recognize how bad it is to choose to reveal your weakness to women; why do they do it? The main reason why is because to stay strong is to risk losing her completely.

Even though, in reality when you choose to be weak the only thing it does is increase the likelihood of you not getting what you want.

A man who stays strong during a breakup can gain;

• Control in the relationship
• A woman who is attracted to him
• Increased inner strength

A man who is weak during a breakup can gain;

• A woman who is in control of the relationship
• A woman who is Not attracted to him
• Increased Inner Turmoil

The real reason why some men choose weakness in their relationship is because in the short-term it is the easiest option to choose. Even though, in the long-term the potential pain that it will cause is greater than any short-term pain that staying strong may bring.

In the end, staying strong or being weak is all about what you are willing to risk in the short term for long-term pleasure.